Friday, 27 November 2015

Car safety - our cargo is too precious to forget these important points!

 
baby car safety

Years ago I was involved in an accident. I wasn't driving a vehicle at the time. I was a pedestrian crossing a zebra crossing, along with a friend,and we both got hit. She stepped out first and I tried to grab her. I suffered from broken ribs, but she had much more serious physical injuries. Thankfully she recovered and is now married with a child, but the experience affected me more than I realised at the time and the effects have been long lasting. 


From that day onwards I have hated driving. I do drive, mainly when I have to, and because I don't want Arthur to miss out on experiences. It was probably also a blessing in disguise that my husband didn't learn to drive until I fell pregnant, meaning I'd already had ten years of being 'the driver' in the relationship so I was forced to continue. I have never driven on a motorway alone, and I know of at least two other people who have admitted the same - this isn't uncommon!

I have come to realise that my anxiety about driving doesn't stem from an inability on my part to drive well - aside from the fact I have a terrible sense of direction and manage to get lost during even the most familiar journey - I've never had an accident and I am cautious on the road. 

My fear isn't about myself - it's about everyone else on the road. Everyone else whose driving I can't control. Everyone else who may not be so careful, so observant, so thoughtful of other road users apart from themselves...

Unfortunately I can't do much about this, but I can make sure that there are certain car safety tips I follow (and share with you so that you can also follow!) so that in the event of an accident, my vehicle is exactly how it should be to protect me, protect Arthur and protect others around me:

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Loose objects:

Make sure there are no loose objects in the car which, upon braking, could hit you or your child. This sounds easy in theory, but in practise, is much harder with a little one on board!  I always seem to have the change bag, sippy cup, phone, satnav, CDs, house keys etc just thrown on the seat - they could be a real hazard if projected at high speed!

Airbags:

They are great for adults and older children, but if you do have a baby or a toddler in the front seat of a car, airbags can be lethal - always make sure they are deactivated. NB - children are safest travelling in the back seat. 

Seatbelts:

Apart from the obvious - ALWAYS WEAR A SEATBELT - it is really important to check your seatbelts for wear and tear so that they will protect you in the event of an accident.  Make sure babies are fitted into their car seat tightly - bulky clothing like a snow suit can make the harness less effective. Strap your baby in, tighten the harness and then cover them in a blanket afterwards. 

Tyres:

The one part of the car that is actually in contact with the road whilst you are driving - they are so important!
 A Lack of tyre safety contributes to more than 1200 road accidents, plus, driving with defective tyres can result in hefty penalties such as £2500 along with three points on the licence. 
The condition of your tyres can affect your ability to stop effectively or control your car appropriately - the difference your tyres can make to the outcome of a collision is huge - it is really important not to ignore this one.  Here is what you need to look for:

  1. Find out the correct tyre pressure for your car (usually on the  inner door) and check this every couple of week, and always before a long journey. It will also save you money as you use less fuel if your tyres have the right pressure!
  2. Look out for cuts or tears on the tyres, and make a note of any tyre that needs topping up more than the others as it may have a slow puncture.
  3. Check the tyre tread and condition - For passenger vehicles of 8 people or less this should be 1.6mm across the central 3/4 of the tread width and around its entire circumference. You can of course buy a tread depth guage, but the easiest thing to do first off is find a 20p coin and place this into the main tread grooves of your tyre. If you can still see some of the outer band of the 20p, then your wheels need to be replaced.
This check is so quick and easy, you could even go and do it  now whilst you have a spare 5 mins. ( I can wait - I'll tell you what to do next if there is a problem)...

...hopefully you have returned to find that for now, your car is safe. If you are back here and feeling a little bit worried - do not fear!  The next step is to (quickly) find and reserve some appropriate tyres for your car.

Point S has a really easy to use website where you simply enter your tyre size ( they have a diagram to help you with this if you are not sure where to find the info, or you can just input your car Reg details), choose and reserve the tyres you want online,  along with a tyre fitting appointment at a time that suits you from your nearest Point S depot. 
They have a wide variety of car tyres in all sizes, from top brands available at competitive prices, so it is worth checking now where your nearest depot is so that you can plan your tyre replacements quickly! Click here to check.


Distractions:

We all know not to use mobile phones in the car, but they aren't the only distraction. Our children are often the single biggest distraction in the car whilst driving. If things do get out of control, the safest thing to do is pull over. For babies seated in a rear facing car seat you can install a mirror which faces your baby and makes them visible when you are checking your rear view mirror. For me, this meant that I wasn't tempted to turn my head around and try to look if he was crying ( or even more worrying, not making a sound at all!) - peace of mind, as long as you don't drive and spend more time looking in the mirror than you do looking at the road!

Wipers/washers:

Make sure your wipers are in good condition and are not split or torn. Check the water level is topped up to wash your windscreen ( I always add antifreeze to mine too). If you are driving and your windscreen becomes obscured by mud, dirt or even just heavy rain - you're going to need this to be working effectively!

Lights:

We always seem to assume they work - and to be honest, once you are in the car it is often hard to tell - and impossible to tell with rear lights! If you live with someone else,  get them to help you check. If you are on your own, check the reflection by reversing up to a garage door or looking at a nearby window.

Oil:

The best time to do this is actually when your engine is warm! Pull out the dipstick and wipe it clean with a cloth, put it back in and pull it out to see where the residue comes up to - if it is significantly below the line, or your oil is really thick and black you need to get this seen to.

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All of the above can really help improve your chances if you find yourself in a sticky situation on the road. We can't do much about driver error, but if we all make sure our cars are as safe as they can be, it could make a huge difference to the outcome.

Would you add anything to this list? Please let me know in the comments below.

Disclaimer

Why not read some of my other posts:

Dealing with colic and reflux in babies

For all the Mummies going back to work...this one's for you

Having a baby - the things they never told me about pregnancy, labour and motherhood

The diary of a 9 month old escape artist


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19 comments:

  1. Great tips and great advice.... I don't drive but was planning to do some driving lesson next year and car accident is one that I'm so scared of. Thanks for sharing this very informative post! #KCACOLS

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    1. Good luck with learning - I think it's a worry for most people, but not one we can always control! Hoping by sharing this advice at least it might help others! Thanks for commenting via #KCACOLS

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  2. Love how comprehensive this is - car safety is so important! I don't drive; I was in quite a bad crash with a friend when I was 17 and it just put me off for life. I'd like to learn one day though (when I have some spare cash to learn with!). :) #KCACOLS

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    1. Ahhh Jessica, sorry to hear that - I completely know how you feel though! It's amazing how things can have such a lasting effect. Hopefully you will feel up to giving it a go at some point - even if it's just for peace of mind in knowing that if you needed to get somewhere desperately you could! Agree with the cost, it's one of the reasons my husband didn't drive till later on as it can be very expensive - he had a few when he was younger but found it easier once he was older and probably needed fewer lessons in the end! Thanks for commenting and joining me via #KCACOLS

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  3. Great tips and advice. I'm always amazed to see the number of people playing with their phones when they're driving or cycling.

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    1. This really annoys me too. I downloaded the periscope app (live broadcasting) a couple of months ago but I had to delete it (for my own sanity!) as almost every single person was filming whilst cycling or driving. I actually tried to give a subtle hint to one man cycling down a busy rd in London whilst broadcasting and reading message by asking him if he was using google glass - he had no idea what I was talking about and just said he was holding his phone in his hand - arghhh!

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  4. Have you read into the research on extended rear facing? I was able to rear face my daughters until 3, but many are doing it much longer. The research is amazing and once you know the stats you can't help but follow the recommendations to avoid that "what if." I am glad you are aware of the snow suites and heavy coats...I get onto people for that a lot and get very annoyed grumbles. My take thier coats off when they get in the car and then put them back on backwards once they're strapped in. Its a little inconvenient... but their life is worth a little inconvenience to me. Also, when rear facing the straps should be at or below the shoulders and when forward facing at or above. (I am super crazy about car seats) ;) I love your post. The two of us would make one paranoid pair! Safety first!! #fartglitter

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  5. Thanks Melissa for the star info - I totally agree with you, it's never worth the risk, especially for the sake of a little extra time. Better late than never! I'm definitely going to have a look into the research you mentioned - thanks for sharing! X

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  6. Great tips, and real food for thought! I was always a confident driver (a 2 hour round trip to work, and in and out of the car all day,) but since I've become a SAHM, and not had to use the car, I've become terrified of driving. I had a little accident when my eldest was a small baby, it was the first one I'd had, and it really scared me (I'm not surprised you had lasting effects from your accident, must've been horrendous,) then shortly afterwards, my mum had looked after the same child for the day, and someone hit them on the motorway while she was bringing him home. This was all before he was 6 months, and the second time he had to be taken to hospital (he was fine.) But now I always think what if theres a third time and we aren't so lucky? And I can't get passed it. At the moment I can just about get away with walking everywhere, but sometime in the future I'll have to start driving again...
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    1. Wow that is enough to make even the most confident driver feel worried! Somehow it always seems even worse when it involves our little ones doesn't it? Such a reaponsibility. Sorry to hear about your past accidents - it is so true that they really can have a huge impact. I definitely think not driving as often almost makes it harder compared to when you are doing it all the time and it is second nature. Walking everywhere isn't bad though - good for you and good for little one....I guess the test really is when you both start to miss out on things because you need to drive to do it - that will probably be the defining moment! Good luck to you, I hope you can work past it, but I do know it isn't easy xx

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  7. Great tips. I've seen a few mentions of the snowsuit thing on blogs and I'm really glad as I'm sure I would have buckled my boy in wearing his jacket when we go home for Christmas but now I know better. Thanks for linking up to #fartglitter x

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    1. Yes me too! Arthur was due just before Xmas last year (although he did t arrive until January!) and we had a snowsuit ready for his first journey home - luckily I found out before then not to do that! Thanks for commenting. X

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  8. This is a great post and full of important information. That accident you had when you were younger sounds terrifying, I am glad you and your friend recovered ok. You are not alone in not liking to drive on the motorway, if I don't have my husband in the car I am absolutely terrified of motorways, I recently wrote about tyre safety too, I don't think everyone realises just how important it is to check they are safe.xx #KCACOLS

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    1. Thanks Wendy - I've just had a read of your post! I am the same re motorways, always have my husband with me if I drive on one! Thanks for commenting xx

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  9. Great tips. Since having my boys I have become a more cautious driver and I worry about so much. Thanks for linking up with #justanotherlinky xx

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    1. Me too - although since having Arthur I don't think my worrying is strictly limited to driving! I am sure you are the same!? Thanks for commenting xx

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  10. Fab tips. Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts

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  11. This is a great post Sarah! Very informative and also sharing your experience was really brave as you had to remember all of that again!! It must have been horrible to experience that but I'm glad you and your friend recovered from well from it. It is so important to be careful and do all these safety checks before we are on the road. Great tips!! Thanks so much for sharing this at #KCACOLS. I'm so happy to have you again for this week. :-) xx

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